I had bladder surgery the 29 of march for bladder surgery, have complained from the beginning that I could not sit upright due to pain, that I felt something there,full, crowded in the vaginal area, the dr. would just blow this off. Well my husband and I tried to resume our love life but were not able to do to the pain. Then my husband tells me that he felt something that felt like hard plastic in there, I went to my reg, dr. and she said what he was feeling was the sling, and I needed to get a second opinion the dr. she referred me to does not have an opening till 16th, should this be seen about sooner? I look up what she said and it said mesh erosion but when ask the nurse she said no it was not that? but I have looked and looked and cannot find anything else? What else can it be? I have found it could be suture erosion. I have pain when bending, sitting, stinging, constipation, most of the time which seems to cause more intense crowding and swollen feeling in vaginal area, I feel bloated, fatigue, no fever.