my boyfriend went on a trip to japan for 2 weeks without me and it bothers me. but here's the thing... he's lived in japan before for like 3 months and while he was living there he was dating someone. and she was part of the reason he wanted to live there. i asked him why he is going there again. and he said because last time he was there he didn't get to explore the country as much. i asked him while he was there if he was going to see her and he said no, too big of a headache. we got into a big argument and now he doesn't want to talk to me until he gets back to the states. so im thinking out of sight, out of mind. i don't know what the heck he is doing there. i want to trust him but i can't. another thing too is that he won't be my friend on facebook. so i can't see his friends or postings. that makes it harder for me to trust him. when he gets back we're going to have a talk but i am thinking should i even bother?!