so me and my live in boyfriend have been together for about two years now. like every couple we have our ups and downs. but ive been getting really irritated with him lately because its been almost a month since we've had sex. hes been complaining for a while now about bad lower back pain and hes kinda limited on how he moves. hes always in pain, not so much to where he cant work but it hurts him. ive told him over and over again to go to the doctors but hes always saying no that he doesnt think they will help. but i hear him complain on the pain daily and it makes me angry. he doesnt ever go to the doctor no matter whats wrong with him, even when everyone tells him he should go. we havent had sex because of this and the only person it seems to bother is me. he tells me all the time lately that he wants me but that hes hurting. he says he probably could get in the mood but he doesnt want to hurt himself cuz the pain would be the only thing on his mind. when we lay together i feel him rubbing against me and i can tell he gets excited but always fights it. i dont pressure him into anything but he sees that it kinda upsets me. and he just chuckles and says that its not that big of a deal and he doesnt understand why it upsets me. but to me i take it kind of personally...its like why wouldnt he want to get better?hes had back pain before but never like this. and it always goes away eventually. to me not having sex with your live in boyfriend for almost a month is not normal and i dont know what to do anymore. hes making it seem like im a bad person for wanting him. help....