I have been married for 24 years. I have not slept outside my marriage. I never wanted to believe that my husband cheated on me, it was easier for me to accept the lie. I wanted to think that I have a happy marriage & set an example to my children.
My symptoms: at first I thought I was going thru the changing of hormones, or it was an yeast infections. I would get outbreaks once a month, 5 days after my period then another right before my period which it the yeast infection. I get burning, redness, some small red bumps all around my vulva N some on my labia. Swelling, sometimes painful intercourse. Discharge would be yellow, could be a little or quite a bit. I thought I got the rash because of vaginal dryness or skin felt like a burning sensation cause of intercourse.
Now, since my husband works out of state and comes home every 6-7 weeks. I know that the rash is not from intercourse. I still have swelling, redness, some small bumbs sometimes, and odor with discharge, and it just burns uncomfortably. last month I had taken some antibiotic a z-pack, for my sinus infection. At the same time I thought well this should get rid of the Trich too. Well, I had sex once after I had taken the z-pac, then my period lasted 6 days, then 5 days later I had an outbreak, it was not as bad, but the redness, swollen, burning, bumbs, a little discharge. I have an appointment this Friday Oct 5, 2010. I am so worried about the outcome and how to handle it. I am so disgusted knowing that my husband had cheated on me. My husband gets really angry a bit violent, I have 5 children and two grown but four still lives at home. I have no job, I am trying to pursue my insurance agent career, because it will allow me to take care of my children, I have one with a heart condition and misses a lot of school. I don't want to be with a man that has cheated on me, I feel like I am stuck. If the result comes back positive. ??? How should I handle my situation!
My husband is a biker, like to take road trips, with friends, he does go to bars, he drinks. When I confronted him last year with the possibility of him cheating on me with someone about 28 years younger he denied it, and with his ex-wife while he was at his sister's funeral cause I did not go, he was there for 2 1/2 weeks. He has also came home late or the next morning or gone all weekend and tells me that he dranked to much so he stayed at a friends or park on the side of the road, slept it off on his bike.