I have been with my boyfriend for 4years now and the last 2years have been really hard on both of us, we fight everyday pretty much and mostly it will be about stupid things. When i try to tell him nicely about how i feel about something he has done or something he could do to help the relationship out he takes it as a threat and we start argueing at the end of it, it is me that says im sorry because he can never see that it is his fault. we pretty much live together when he isnt staying at my house i am staying at his house. I talk to my friends about my problems and they all tell me the same thing to just leave. but it isnt that simple i cant just give up and leave someone i love.
We used to have sex alot and then it just started cutting down and now we have sex maybe once every 2 weeks if im lucky twice. i feel like the guy because im always asking him to have sex and most of the time he will say nuh im to tired, when he can stay up and play video games even after he gets back from work. He rather wank than have sex with me because he does it all the time. i dont get it, i dont know what to do.