I am 42 and have been with my partner for 10 years. He asked to marry me 2 years ago which we did 2 months ago. Have I made a mistake?
Over the past few months he has been texting a female relative. I was fine about it because she was family relative and she worked for him. I found leading up to the wedding he was bit more distant. Our wedding day was fabulous and we did look the happiest. The day after the wedding, we were a bit tired, however I asked him for sex, he refused because he said he was too tired. I couldnt believe it. I sat and cryed in the bathroom. I have to say I looked gorgeous and had worked hard for months at the gym to get a fine looking body.
However once the wedding was over, he changed. So few days ago i read his mobile phone bill - there was a lot of texts to this female. I was absolutely devistated. He said he liked her texting him jokes etc and he would return the texts.
I had told him it had to stop otherwise I would definately leave him. He has been really quiet the last few days. He apologised, after asking him to. I asked him if he was clean (for sex) earlier and he said no and carried on watching the tv. Am I being stupid? Is it staring me in the face that he doesnt want me? I will leave him if this continues.