My question has two parts, but both involve having sex with man who has a large penis. I've recently started dating a man and last weekend we had sex for the first with each other. Two problems occured after the weekend was over. First was, the skin just outside my vagina was very raw and sore and almost felt as if it ripped. Second, I have recurring issues with hemorrhoids and after this weekend, I had a major flare up. I was wondering, if the raw, sore skin was a result of lack of lubrication or a possible sensitivity to latex. And could the size of his penis impact my anal area and aggravate the hemorrhoids? Thank you.