Been married for 7 yrs and have had sex like 5 times. It all started on our honeymoon, he told me he was not in the mood and since then that has been the story. Funny thing is that whenever he wants to have a baby he is ok and able to make love but once i conceive he shuts. He doesn't even come to bed until i am asleep and he wakes up early before do and just sits watching television. He won't make any effort to change things and i'm tired. what could be wrong?. He is such a good father to the babies and a good provider for everything but not for anything personal that concerns me there he is aloof.