My boyfriend and I are serious about getting married in the future and I am divorced with a 41/2 year old duaghter. Her father and have split custody and I have physical custody. Her father has liberal visitation. Her father causes a lot of drama in our lives and is a horible communicator and does pay child support regulary. My boyfriend wants me to fight for sole custody and move out of the state to Washington and then again to Colorado his home town. He says that he refuses to be controled by my ex. Is this too much for him to expect out of me? Custody battles and visitation issues dealing with out of state travel. Shouldn't I expect him to tell me know if he still want to be with me even if I fight for custody but cant get and the court dont allow me to move out of the state?