My husband and I were married late 2008. 9 months after we were married, he was deployed to Afghanistan for a year. We've always had a healthy sex life...no issues. After being gone a year, you would think we would make up for lost time. It's been the opposite. Since he's been home in Aug., we've had sex maybe 6 or 7 times...that's an average of once per month. When we do have sex, he either doesn't climax or loses his erection half way through. I feel HORRIBLE, unsexy and miss our intimacy. I went a year without him and now I feel like I've lost a part of him. He never initiates sex...ever. It's always me and I think he gives in to appease me unfortunately. He's complained that I get too excited too fast (wet) but I've always been that way? I just feel like I cant do anything to get him to be as excited about being with me as I am with him. He's affectionate, giving, warm, loving and everything else in our marriage is great...it's just the intimacy that is lost and when I try to talk to him about it, he says I'm nagging him and he doesn't know why, but he's just not as interested in sex as much as I am. :( That comment killed me inside...killed my confidence and broke my heart. What do I do? Please help me....