I have a girlfriend since 24 years and when my husband passed away in 2007 of cancer we both have had some issues.I really didn't have any support system and she was not well herself but she had a large family I knew quite well so they were there for me,I started hanging out with her brother as a friend,now I know you know where this is headed.He wants me to move in with him but she lives with him and has been for 4 years. I feel uncomfortable about this situation because she is on disibility,but then so am I and I live alone and do my best financially.I know he has been spoiling her whereas she doesn't have to buy or pay bills he does it all.He is a wonderful man .What should I do to not feel guilty. I still care for her to.