My boyfriend and I have recently been thinking about having sex for the first time. I am a virgin but he is not. When we were discussing it the other day, he told me about his first time. That the girl was bleeding alot and she was screaming. And I want to have sex with him I really do, but I'm very scared about the pain. So scared that it makes me change my mind about ever having sex. Is it really that bad? Will it really hurt as bad as I think it will? And will i really bleed alot?