I had my total abdominal hysterectomy was done back in 1997. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we are planning on getting married next year. He finally confessed to me that when we have sex that he cannot feel anything inside me and has a more difficult time having an orgasim. When I give him oral sex there is no problem at all for him. I don't want to give up having sex forever but it hurts knowing I can't make it feel good for him.