Lately, my husband has been having orgasms while we have sex far in few in between. I end up having to finish him by hand. This requires fast motions for a good amount of time. I've noticed now that when I do finish him by hand, it take a prolonged time of fast motions. He doesn't masturbate so I'm not sure what to think or how to "reverse" it. Am I the reason he can't have an orgasm while having sex? I don't want him not to have an orgasm but at the same time, I don't want to make it worse. Does anyone have any suggestions?