hi i just turned 44, and for the past say year to year and a half ive just been moody,my sexy drive is very low,,, i talked to my doctor about it and she said no cause im still haveing my period every month pretty regular,,, only off by one day either way....mostly 6/7 day durartion moderate flow. last year i went t the dr.and she said i had a mild case of anxiety and put me on buspar for a month and it didnt change the symptoms at all.im always on edge ans defensive ,i also see the my words are sometimesare hard to gt together,or will comeout weird i really dont think its anxiety ,,,,maybe at the time being as i lost my dad back then but not no more .there are also days where i feel extrememly hot almost like someones holding a torch to my bottom.( lol) my concern is the moody defensive feeling all the time .i also feel tired alot of the time i have seasonal allergies and asthma (but mild)ok welllook forward to hear your ideas on it thank you christine