IVE BEEN MARRIED TO A MAN FOR THE LAST 12 YEARS. PROBLY 3 OF THE 12 HE HAS HAD A JOB(HES A CARPENTER) sorry caps) iam so tired of being the only one with a job. the men in my family do whats ever necessary to support their families but he just isnt concerned about it and its killing me. i pay 80% of the bills and we possibly will lose our house because i cant afford to pay for everything. we fight a lot because ive just lost all respect. i cant discuss anything with him that isnt positive or he yells at me very loud and gets scary. i dont want to leave him but he is sucking the life out of me. iam so sad, what do i do?