I had Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma, a rare childhood soft tissue cancer. It was in the back of my pelvis. I received extensive chemotherapy, radiation to the pelvis and suffered severe weight loss (22lbs at one point). Before I found out about my cancer (age 16), my libido was great. I am now 21 years old, cancer free and struggling to keep a relationship steady. My longest relationship has been 4 months and I feel it is because I am so insecure about my libido or lack thereof. How can I repair this problem and feel more secure in the bedroom?