I'm 21 and i have a one year old son and i have been married for 3 years now but i have not much of a sex drive. I think my husband is sexy and i see him and want to have sex but when the times comes down to it i just cant do it. the blood is not flowing and the need to do it is just not there. my husband has a high sex drive and i wish i had one. I have depression and ADHD . I try my best to work my self up but still no help. i have tried this drops my friends had and still nothing. I have watched porn, took this drops my friends have given me and still nothing. we have sex at lest once a month is that. I need help sex is post to just come to u but for me it does not. how do i get my sex drive up?????