well my bf and i were having alot of sex in the begining but now he only wants oral? i mean i asked him about and he said that its because he can concertrat on us and he is calm around me. he added in that his ex fiance run him dry about having sex every day and all day. he loves oral but i want more he fingers and stuff idk what to do. help. we have been talking about getting engaged idk what to do