My husband believes there is something wrong with me because I cannot have an orgasm with sex alone. There is only a small percentage of women who can have an orgasm with intercourse alone but he does not believe me and this is such a problem between us. He does not want to understand me and my body. He compares me to past relationships and not me as an individual. He does not listen to me when I try to guide him. This is very frustrating to me and it makes my self esteem plummet. Please help!