Me and my boyfriend have been together now for about a year. Athe very beginning of this relationship everything was okay until he cheated on me. i decided to get him back and do the same. ever since then hes been cdontrolling me tellingme what to do. he even spanks me like a kid when i do something wrong. also when it comes to sex i always please him but when it comes to me i never get it bak and it makes me angry please help.