my boy friend wants to get serious about our relation, taking it to the next step where sexual intercourse is involved. The problem is i get pretty nervous when he brings up the topic, im very comfortable around him and all but when it comes to sex i just freak out about and he tell me its nothing to worry about. A lot of crazy things run through my mind about sex like what if the condom breaks or what if i wont like it, i get really nervous thinking about it i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it because it just feels weird. im 18 years of age and my boy friend is 21. its really a big step for me to take, should i get some tips on family planning from the clinic before i take this step just to be on the safe side??? ps: i don't want things to change between him and i if we go through with it.