I LIVE WITH A ASPERGER MALE, WHO I AM TRULY IN LOVE WITH. WE USE TO DATE WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER AND DECIDED TO TRY RELATIONSHIP AFTER 30 YRS. I JUST FOUND OUT THAT HE HAS ASPERGER AND IT IS VERY TOUGH FOR ME. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 YR NOW BUT HE TENDS TO STAY ON FACEBOOK AND TEXT HIS OLD GIRLFRIENDS. HE FEELS THE NEED TO STAY IN TOUCH WITH THEM FOR SOME ODD REASON. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH HIS PHONE AND ON HIS FACEBOOK PAGE AND FOUND WHERE HE IS SAYING STUFF LIKE " I STILL LOVE YOU AND YOU WILL BE IN MY HEART BUT HE NEVER GOES ANY FURTHER THAN THAT. I BRING IT UP WHAT HE IS SAYING AND NOW HE IS SAYING I AM JEALOUS. OUR PLANS WERE TO GET MARRIED SOON BUT NOW HE IS SAYING HE IS SCARED BECAUSE I MIGHT CHANGE. I DON'T FEEL THAT I AM JEALOUS , I JUST WANT RESPECT. I DO UNDERSTAND THAT BOUNDARIES ARE SOMETHING ASP HAVE PROBLEMS WITH BUT IT SEEMS LIKE I AM LOOSING HIM AND I DON'T WANT HIM TO GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO SOMEONE ELSE. WHAT CAN I DO?