Just because i don't have the good feeling down there with increased blood flow doesn't mean i avoid intercourse. I still love it, but i don't get any satisfaction. I told my OBGYN and she said its the pill. I told her i didn't even have it when i was in my 20s and not on the pill. The only way i can have an orgasm is by using my hands to rub myself during sex, but some positions don't make that easy. So i can't always finish myself. My boyfriend does not go down on me, and i don't want to ask him to. I've tried B-12, horny goat weed, oysters (yuk), chocolate, and all those other boosters and no help.. I remember once when i was 16 i was in bed at night and had this overwhelming feeling of pleasure down there and i felt so wet, i had no idea what to do.. and now i'm 32 I hope i get that feeling again. :(