I know that my boyfriend is not gay... Well of course you can't be sure but I know him well enough.
A few months ago he wanted to try 3somes... And I was game for it, just so he would be satisfied. Nothing happened, and he said i wasn't trying hard enough to find someone (obviously I'd feel uncomfortable if he went out to find a woman, so he left the ball in my court) and if I really wanted a 3some, I'd be making it happen. So to prove I wasn't all talk, I went on a rampage trying to find a woman, and then he seemed very disinterested.
I've tried everything... He won't just do it spontaneously, it always has to happen at night right before bed, and I've bought tons of lingerie in the past couple months, because he said he likes it.
But I'll put the outfit on and go and sit with him... He will acknowledge what I'm wearing... But not do anything... Not until we climb into bed at night. I just don't know what to try! :(