Hi :) I am 21 years old & in October I will have been married for 3 years & have had 2 childeren. I am having a problem with not only my sex drive but climaxing also. Please understand that I am VERY attracted to my husband & very much still in love with him,we have a wonderful relationship & he has been more than patient with all of this but something needs to change. I WANT to be in the mood,I want to make love to my husband everyday but its like no matter what I do or he does I just can't seem to get in the mood. Now sometimes after we have had sex I am extremly in the mood but by then he has orgasimed & it'll be awhile b4 we can do it again & then either we get busy or it goes away. Then on top of that I would say I've climaxed a total of 2-3 times in the past 2 years! It just seems like its an impossible task. My husband is my first & only sexually so I don't have a lot of experience but whenever I can orgasim,its only if I'm on top,I don't know why.