Hi, I have a kind of family problem and it's a long story though. In such matter I'm stuck in between and I'm actually seeing a social worker but it's not good enough for me. I'm only 99 percent comfortable with her. To make it brief story here is what I have to say. My father has problems in all kinds of way and he usually is the source of all kinds of problems. My mother stopped talking to him for few years now and out of the blue In January she started talking to him, she made herself religious, her talking and behavior changed and she is not herself anymore. I'm 30 years old and I'm more than ready to move out on my own but it's financial issue for me. I'm working towards my goals in every way I can but meanwhile with the way things are in my house it's gone to far. From the way my mother is it shows she is bothering herself and bothering me. She has a lot on her mind, has stress and anxiety and more than half the problem is because of my father. What ever I tell my mother nothing helps. She keep saying I have bad thoughts. Only God knows whats inside her head. She is driving me crazy and herself and I can't take it anymore. I don't have anyone close to talk to and seeing social worker is not good enough for me. I want someone who is a expert who can help me especially with the way my mother is to stop her insanity. I don't know what more to do or say. What kind of person you think I should talk to or see on behalf of my mother? Would this sound right to you? Please let me know soon.
Thank You,
Melissa