I am a 26 year old woman. I recently found out I have genital herpes hsv2. I been depressed and crying because this was my fault for a one night drunken stand with a man. My mind is racing I need more answers. I am in love with a woman who lives in another state. We will soon be getting married and yet to have sexual actions. I cant seem to find what I am looking for exactly. Can a woman with hsv2 still have sex and oral sex with another woman. I am not sure how this will work. I havent told her yet because I need to tell her her in person. We had talked before I told her I wasnt a very sexual person. She has told me its not important. But I still need answers to ease my mind. please.