when is it considered the right time to visit a gynecologist i recently became sexually active and they say women should be concerned abt such things. my bf masturbates lot and for the past three days every time he stands up just as we are about to ave sex he gets soft which is not like him at all as he is a very sexual person he's been working harder than normal these days as well as under stress can this be the reason whats happening to him. also since ive been on birth control pills i haven't had a clear discharge its sticky at time and creamy looking it doesn't ave a bad Oder i don't ave itching and i don't experience any burning sensation during urination i dont experience pain during sex so thts why i am still concerned with visiting a gynecologist should i be worried i knw i ave polytheistic ovaries and how i kne was because of an ultrasound .