I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We see each other once a week because we don't live in the same city. We used to have sex all weekend long. started out like 5 times in a weekend and about 2 months ago it had tapered down to twice a weekend now it is none. I have had a rough year losing my job and I gained 50 lbs. He got a new job and has been working very long hours monday through friday and half the day on saturdays. He has been getting back in shape. He is extremely affectionate still and always wants to cuddle and kiss and tell me he loves me. I do love to cuddle and kiss but it really hurts me to think that he might not find me sexually attractive anymore. I need that intimate time with him. I crave that desire he once had with me. I do have a higher libido. Am I the only one that went through this?