Recently, my boyfriend of almost 1 year has taken to masterbation rather than having sex with me. While in bed together he asks me to kiss him while he masterbates and proceeds to ejacualte on my leg ect. When we do have sex he is quick to orgasm and is not worried about my pleasure. As soon as he orgasims the sex is done. I am left wanting more and feeling sad and angry. I have told him that he needs to slow down while we are doing the deed because I take a while longer to reach an orgasm. In the beginning of our relationship he always made sure I was pleasured first. I feel as if he has gotten selfish in the bedroom and when he orgasims, the mood is over. He immediately gets up to clean himself off and I am left feeling used and uncared for. I shouldn't feel like this. Sex should be equally enjoyable for both parties. It's not fun for me anymore. Today we had sex and it has been a week since the last time I rode him, that lasted 2 minutes. I love him and don't know what to do. When I am in the mood he says he is too tired or too full. I don't get it, when we first started dating he wanted to have sex with me all the time. Help!