My husband and I used to have great sex. Lately all he does is crawl on have his orgasm and then roll over and go to sleep. He doesnt even try to arouse. me. When I do start to become aroused, it seems as though he orgasms even faster, but then does the same thing, finishes for himself then rolls over and ignores me. I have talked to him about this and he says he doesnt do this...how do I show him that I want to be pleasured as much as he does? I always make sure that he is pleased, why is he so selfish?