I had my surgery January 27th, the surgeon said everything went fine. I couldn't urinate after surgery so went home with a Foley which was taken out after three days. While the Foley was in I barely moved, my husband emptied my Foley bag for me (now that's love) once I did start to need to get up I started noticing this intense pain in my left hip/groin pain upon needing to stand, within the next week I was also having severe right groin pain which constant. On the second week I also started having a gush on urine come out upon standing after just urinating... this has happened nearly 15-20 times now. I am just near the 5 week mark and both of my groins/hips are in severe pain. The right hurts all the time especially when I walk and the left only hurts when I need to get up from laying down or sitting down so much that I have to physically pull my leg up with my hands. My surgeon said it wasn't the sling so I went to my PCM and he thought it was possible bursitis and put me on naproxen which I had to stop after 3 days because it was tearing my stomach up. Last night I started having some severe pain in my low pelvic area as well. I straddled a mirror the other night and the incision in my vagina doesn't look any different than it did a week after surgery. you can't see my vag opening at all, just a bunch of bunched up tissue. I am concerned about all of this.... HELP, did I make a mistake by having this surgery?!?!