I have a 4yr old son. He does not listen to me at all. i ask him to do something and its like im talking to a wall. I tell him not to do something and he just doesn't listen. I take away toys, i do time out, nothing seems to work. Hes got such a nasty not nice attitude all the time. I don't know what to do. I try and do fun activities with him and take him out to play when we have nice weather but he always seems to be doing something hes not suppose to and i have to yell at him or punish him by bringing him in the house. Everyone says "oh its just the age" or "its ADHD" but i think its something else... i just dont know what.... any advice or help would be greatly appreciated. i feel like such a terrible mom because i "cant fix him" or change the behavior...