Ok, I wouldn't ask, but lately I'm starting to get sexually frustrated. Recently, my boyfriend (almost 41) and I had "attempted" to have sex. And everything was going great until we reached the intercourse part and he went limp. I tried everything I knew to try to get it back and it just didn't work. I have to plan for a month when we have sex and I have to make the move because he never seems interested. I am officially sexually frustrated because masturbation just isn't enough for me. I want him. I'm not going to cheat to get what I want. He hates doctors and refuses to go see one for anything less than a broken bone. Please help me out. How can I raise his sex drive? Please help me!!