I was married to a police officer for 21 yrs and have 2 children. He became mentally ill, battling PTSD, depression, alcoholism and drug addiction. I learned quite by accident that he was a transvestite and had been having affairs our entire marriage with both men and women. I wrote down my story which has now been published into a book entitled "Not my circus, not my monkey" and is available through Amazon. It is my goal to help others who are struggling in the darkness to find their way back into the light and let them know they're not alone. There is always hope