My boyfriend and I have started branching out and and giving each other hand jobs. I can get him off every-time but when it comes my turn I'm nervous. I'm nervous that he'll feel bad if I dont have an orgasm, or that it will hurt. And then I let him. What he was doing felt good and I almost came multiple times but I never actually did. I don't know why and I find it really hard to ask him to do certain things that would help....How do I overcome that?
The idea of him touching me like that and the way I feel when he does it is amazing..so why am I not finishing? Is it psychological? Or physical or both?