hello! i will be 35 soon. and 2 weeks ago i felt pain on the upper right part of my breast, and when i felt it it was so tender full of soft and hard lump at the same time. i heard that if you feel the other breast is like a mirror that if the lumps is the same on the opposite breast is more likely benign lumps. so that kinda assure me that it is ok and maybe its because my period was just around the corner. but what is scaring me so much is the lump in my armpit next to ther right breast that was painful. i felt my armpit and the lump on my armpit was mild tender that time. 2 days after i dont have the pain on my right breast anymore but the lump that i felt on my armpit is still there. its very mobile very soft like soft grape. i am very scared what it is. it hasnt gone down in size and it dont hurt at all. i had a doctor appt to check it out but i ended up cancelling it because i want to finish my menstrual period first and see if it goes away. could a very soft mobile painless lump be something serious? pleae help me> thank you for all the time