Hi, I am 42 and I really hope I can have a child! But my husband told me that I'm too old to have a baby. He has two kids with his ex girlfriend, but the kids really hate him since their mother told them he is a bad person... I can't help them because they hate me too, I don't know why! I think we should have our own life and could have a child, but my husband said no! He give me many reasons to stop me think of to have a child with him! And he kept to tell me that I'm too old to have a baby! So, is there any one can tell me that why a man doesn't want a child in his new life? Does he really loves me? Why he is so selfish and never think about my feeling? Thank you!