I'm 18 now and still a virgin. I want to have sex but I don't know how to act, what to do? Can it be dangerous if I start feeling much pain? Do we need to stop then? I read it here that most girls feel discomfort and pain and bleeding. Which things are normal to feel and which arent? Can I do something to "make it work" other then just relax and take it slow? Please, help.. thank you