So I'm currently 16 and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I want to have sex but I feel like I'd worry too much about getting pregnant, depite using birth control, as I have been known to worry about being pregnant even tho I'm a virgin (eg precm on hands etc). Anyway my boyfriend really wants to and I feel like I'm weird because every other relationship seems to have sex and I'm at the legal age. I don't know when I'm going to stop having this phobia of being pregnant. My boyfriend said I should get the pill but I feel like even with the pill I'd worry after and I'm not sure if my mum would approve of me having sex. Not entirely sure what I'm asking here but..is it okay to be scared to have sex? To you have any tips for Me? Thank you