He will not have intercourse with me, will not let me please him, I come on to him and ask him and he says no, not in the mood, but would rather give me oral, that's as far as our sex life will go, then when confronted with it, he ignores it, very lightly talks about it or gets down and thinks I'm attacking him, it feels like he is withholding it and making it about him, we've been together a year and a couple months and I just feel that at 4 months it started getting less and less and it continues that way to where we don't at all, it's really starting to frustrate me.