We have been together for 2 years the first year was great. Now the last 8 months we had sex 5 time and it's cause I bring it up so at that point why even bother he is doing it to shut me up. He says he has no sex drive but he is 25 and it's been 8 months I have found him watching porn and taken care of himself a few times. I have tried everything on my end to spice things up please help me