Hi there. So I know this was dumb and you should always be safe regardless, and I am far too paranoid to let this happen again. It was unplanned, and will from now on be planned.
Last night at the spur of the moment my boyfriend of 5 months and I decided to have sex. Because of how tight I am he only got a little more than the tip in before the pain was too much. So I guess it was kind of sex. He was definitely in just not a lot. Anyways since it was unplanned he didn't have a condom and I've never been on birth control because the last time I even attempted sex was 2 years ago. I'm almost 20, he's almost 21. But he's more experienced than I am so I chose to trust him on this
Anyways, he assured me he wasn't going to come that he had earlier that day. And this mostly was just a trial to see how tight I actually was not actual sexy sex. I reserved the right to blow up at him if anything happens. But I know there is still such a thing as precm.
I had been reading up on "best times to not get pregnant" lately because I am an extremely paranoid person and I read on some new moms website that the rule of thumb is a week before and week after your period are generally safe.
My period ended on the 31st and today is the 3rd. Also the app i use to track it and have for months says I'm not fertile for 4-5 more days and the little symbol for ovulation is on the 13th.
Again, I know it was dumb especially with how paranoid I am. Unless he came without me knowing I don't think he did. I peed right after because I had to pee. I don't know if that matters.
Plan B is very expensive here, so I only want to get it if you women here who know more than I do think I need it. It also messes up my cycle to take Plan B. I took it out of paranoia two years ago after my last sex attempt and it basically flipped my cycle. So Plan B only if necessarily.
How much should I be worried? What should I do? This will not happen again I guarantee it.