I moved from Wales in April 2015 to England We had tremendous problems with the neighbours when we got here Then my husband of 50 years passed away on Boxing day 2015 and I now find myself in the process of having to sell this property (Its sold) and moving again Can the stress of all this do things to me. I have lost 2 stone and 7 pounds in weight mainly because the car which was motability had to go back so now I walk and bus since the death of my husband . I feel breathless on exertion Have no inclination to get up and go .and I feel tired and I have noticed my blood pressure has dropped it averages out at around 125 / 67 sometimes a little higher sometimes a little lower I was diagnosed with borderline Diabetes with a count of 48 49 then 54 now its back down to 46 over the last 18 months I know 46 is good. I feel anxious more since my husband has passed away could it be all I am going through or is there an underlying cause. ? I have not been to see the Doctor/nurse since February when they said I was borderline Diabetic . After the test I was declared non Diabetic .So I have not been back as they didn't know my husband had passed away which surprised me as he was with the same Doctor as me . Regards Linda Bourne .