My husband's fighting and edging me on everyday. I tell him to quit because it makes me hurt. It is very bad and upsetting. He doesn't realize on what I am going through, he thinks it's a game. This way he has a upper hand on me. He is very insecure. That's why I'm hurting and he's not. It makes him feel better. I have had too many bad days and they only become worse when he fights. I don't want to fight because it hurts my body from the fibromyalgia to be under such stress. I don't know what to do. I'm not a crier but he makes me cry. How can I stop him? We both are 62 been married for 32 years. I'm sorry that this article does not make too much sense, I get so confused because of the illness.