My Bf and I were wearing clothes while grinding however I saw a wet patch on his shorts after and I'm worried that it could have gone through my jeans. He also rubbed my vagina over clothes straight after and I'm worried that it could have pushed the sperm cells into the fabric even more. He also gave me oral, and I know this sounds stupid but what if there were traces of sperm in his mouth? I also gave him oral and swallowed and I'm worried that there's a pregnancy risk from that. It just scares me, the fact that I was naked and close to his penis, all though they didn't touch. Also, does washing hands definitely get rid of ALL the sperm that's on the hands? If the surface is dry does that mean the sperm is dead? Sorry if I sound stupid I'm just really stressed :((