I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, and we used to have sex like six times a day, about two years ago he lost his job, and I haven't worked either, and we also drink pretty heavily. Mind you I am 28 and he is 48. He never gets me off hardly. The last time was three months ago. And about two weeks ago I got him off orally. He barely touches me, and when I ask, and yes I feel like why should I have to ask my boyfriend for sex or to be intimate? He says I get ugly, and then like last night we yelled for like an hour, and then when we woke up this morning he didn't even act that interested in me, but we did have sex. It seems like I am the only one that says I love you, and asks to be kissed. I am beginning to feel like he doesn't even find me attractive. Can someone please help, kinda counsel me with this? I am solo confused!!!