hi, i'm 25 and my husband is 32. we have been married for 3 years. i was virgin before marriage. our sex life was so normal like once a week for first year and after that maybe once or none in a month. also from second year he loose his erection during sex several times. This makes me very insecure and sad in need for more intimacy, i am model and we are healthy young couple. we kiss and cuddle and madly in love, he is perfect husband, most mornings when i wake up he is staring at me kissing and telling me how much he love me. but i really don't know why he refuse sex. last year i decide to leave him but i changed my mind because he cried and asked to give him one more chance. so i stay because of our love. but recently i caught him masturbate, i really don't know what to do. if he need sex why not with me. why he don't understand he is hurting me emotionally.