I'm torn on this/ese particular issue/s because of one of my neighbors just died. It has quite few grandchildren. Couple of them it hasn't seen not a whole lot since they live on the other side of the country for the past couple of yrs. But going to be moving back in the next yr or so. And one of them it has just met while they came back for its christening a mo ago. At the same time I do remember with one of my own grandparent 's death my cousins were there because they thought with my twin sister and me being quite older them that we could help with the care of them. Also, I do believe that their youngest cousin whom was at age during this time. Went to all of this because their other cousin and them were old enough to help care of it.